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Anonymous part two

Friday, January 18, 2013

As everyone who reads my blog knows that I've been getting a lot of comments about how I am treating me current situation. The only thing I have to say about everything is no one know me.. All the rude things being said I repeatedly read I don't know you but... Which got me thinking no one has heard of me till I started dating Michael apparently that is all anyone cares about. They dont care who I was before Michael and really only hate me because I married him and he has a daughter. I can tell you the exact date Michael and I became serious and it was not till After my step daughter was born. I do not need to sit here and justify anything to anyone. I just wanted to say it amazes me how we treat other people. Yes even I have treated people horrible. I've done some pretty low things. But what's sets me apart from other people is that I am doing what I can to make things right. I will not post the rude things people say about me cuz once again even they admit they don't know me. They don't know what I've been through or my pain because I choose to not broadcast every bad thing that has ever happened to me and try to blame other people for it. Everyone keeps saying I try to make my life seem like it's perfect. Well here is why I do that because I'm not out looking for pity every time I don't get my way. Or for when Michael makes me so mad that I could scream. Or that I have been divorced and made the mistake of being completely dependent on that person that when we got divorced I completely lost it. I'm sorry that my blog paints a picture of happiness but I would rather people see the good in my life and enjoy seeing me happy! I do not like being judged by people that don't know me or don't take the time to look at the bigger picture. I will continue to post about the happy times in my life because that's all that really matters. Even though I may break down an have a sad post once in a while my blog will not be full of them. It will not be full of talking bad about other people or anything like that. So if your wanting that type of a blog go somewhere else.

I am happy with my life. I am happy for how far I've come. I love that my family can see a huge change in me. Honestly that's all that matters! So once again keep the negative comments to yourself. Keeps your thoughts to yourself if you need to vent your disgust with my actions do it with someone who will buy it. This is the final post about my anonymous commenter and the non anonymous commenters. I do however really appreciate the support Michael and I are being shown.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Keep being happy.
I like your happy blog.

Anonymous said...

Hey Tonya. I think you're doing an awesome job. I know we didn't always get along in high school, but I'm glad to see you happy. I think you have gone through a lot since I knew you, and it is really awesome to see where you are now. You are a great person, and I think you make a great step-mother. Don't listen to anyone who tries to put you down because you are way better than all of them. Take care!

Anonymous said...

Thank you! Really! I wish I knew who you are but high school was always a good time:) whoever you are I hope you are doing well!